Six “get better” resources for us!
Don’t just take my word for it, here are six other stellar resources to find your better!
Learning how to learn better
There are two simple things we can do to learn a new skill. Running, fortunately, isn’t required!
Tracking irritability made me perform better
(4 min read) What does tracking irritability in an app have to do with performing better the next day? Turns out, quite a lot.
Results are in: Best & Worst Relationships Skills
We should look at our strengths and weaknesses as humans a bit differently than that of leaders. In a follow-up to the previous edition, we look at readers’ survey responses.
Harvard’s Secret to a Happy Life
What’s repeated by many experts is there are three main, broad buckets that help us live happier, longer lives. Harvard’s 80-year study highlighted just one.
How to do the things you know you should do (but don’t want to)
Doing the hard thing we don’t like can create a 14-to-1 benefit-to-input ratio. I like math and I really like THAT math. Here’s how to think about it and make it happen.
Perfect Attendance
When training for the Olympics - school was always in, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, on Sundays, and Thanksgiving, even on Christmas.
Drink in the moment
As an athlete, compartmentalization became one of my greatest skills. The skill of ignoring everything else and focusing 100% on the task at hand was absolutely essential if my team and I were going to win. In real life though, such severe compartmentalization comes at a steep cost.
What to (not) focus on: says the former Olympian
There is a pet peeve amongst many Olympians and it goes like this…
A Day in the Life of Relentless Pursuit
A proper mindset allows you to do the work. But the work still needs to be done.
6 Olympians, a Paralympian, & an XBox’er: Advice to our younger selves, Part 2
“I would tell my younger self to consider your future self. Ask yourself: what would your 60 or 80 year old self tell you now? Then think about how you might shift your choices based on those answers.”
Uncertain? Stockdale Paradox The Hell Out Of It
My first thought was: “This is moving really fast and, if I’m being honest with myself, I’m having a hard time keeping up.”
My second thought was: “I am going to do my absolute damndest to figure this out.”
“Less-wrong” isn’t the same as right
Not so fun fact: There was a time not long ago when a Paralympian winning a gold medal at the Paralympic Games was worth (don’t quote me here) about 10% of an Olympic medal.
The power of a simple mental reframe
‘I’m just going to decide I like it. It’s my brain, it’s my thoughts, it’s my feelings, it’s my choice. I’m going to like it.’
Getting better at appreciating what IS better.
We should take stock, do our lessons learned, and plan ahead at some point. If we do it for projects at work, why shouldn’t we do it for the thing that is FAR more important – our own life?
How I stay consistent with exercise
You would think that if we all knew movement was key to a longer life, ALL OF US WOULD BE DOING IT RELIGIOUSLY.
And yet, a lot of people struggle to actually do it. I see this amongst some of my peers, and I’ve been there myself at times. In fact, the latest information says that only 23% of Americans are exercising enough, and even fewer Canadians.
In what should come as no surprise, nearly 70% of Americans say they want to live to 100 years of age.
For a Little Guaranteed Better - Roll the Tape!
This is possibly the simplest, guaranteed method to improve performance. Athletes do it all the time. Yet so few people in the “real world” do it.
Grudge Match: Ideas vs Communication
What’s more important: an idea or the communication of that idea?